Archive for March, 2009

My Funny Little Boy

Sunday was a beautiful day.  So beautiful, in fact, that we felt that it would be a crime to stay indoors.  We are now nose-deep in the gray-dreary rain season and will most likely see no real end to it for at least tow more months.  That, my friends, sucks donkey dong. 

We decided to go to a nearby park that is usually full of large dogs taking large dumps.  Since it’s still early in the Spring season, we were safe from dog bombs.  We packed Lukas and his little Power Wheels Batman Quad into the car along with a small tub of animal crackers.  Let me just sum it all up by saying that we laughed quite a lot. 

The park had a gazebo surrounded by trees and a bunch of leaves.  Lukas spent about an hour gathering the leaves and organizing them into a tiny little pile on the floor.

He was so impressed with the little pile of leaves that I took a picture of it for him.  Of course, he will think this is completely lame..and maybe it is.  Do I care?  Fuck no.

Then Mr. Lukas found a stick.  This was one of the most hilarious parts of the day as Lukas got a great deal of excitement from chasing Jessie around the gazebo beating him in the shins with the stick.  I regret not snapping any pictures of this, but I was simply laughing much too hard to function on that level.

It was just so nice to get out of the house and let the sunshine warm our skin.  I think it’s safe to say that this weather is for the birds.  I can’t wait to get back to proper weather and not gloom and psychotic drivers all the time.  I even miss the horrendously humid and hot summers.  The air is so dry out here that the skin over my knuckles has cracked open. 

Ok, I’m babbling.  If I choose to crawl out from under my rock again and blog anytime soon, I’ll make an effort to organize it better.

 

 

 

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Home Grown Lovin’s

First Lady Michelle Obama has planted an organic vegetable garden on the White House lawn.  Personally, I am very excited about this and what the implications of this action might bring about.  The blogosphere today is full of people talking about produce, organic food, and air pollution.  They all go together, you see. 

While I am not a huge buyer of organic produce because of it’s cost, I love locally grown.  Here in Washington, a lot of our produce is locally grown or it is shipped in from Oregon or California.  Compared to other places in the country, we’re not doing all that bad.  When I see that a certain product is from Mexico, I always think twice about buying it.  It’s never expensive, but I picture in my head the truck or the train car that used up a ton of fuel just to get the piddly little piece of produce to my grocery store. 

I’m also all for growing some of your own vegetables.  I don’t have a yard.  I have a tiny slab of concrete that we call a “patio.”  On this “patio” i have a small fig tree.  In the summer I grow tomatoes.  I suppose if I were really ambitious, I could grow quite a few things on my little slab.  You’d be surprised at the small amount of space needed to grow your own produce.  The cost is crazy cheap and if you are dutiful to your plants, they yield quite a lot of bounty.  Your local home store like Lowe’s or Home Depot always has seeds, and small plants for sale in the Springtime.  I also like this place, Gurney’s.  I bought a small lemon tree, a fig tree, a dwarf orange tree and a key lime tree.  Unfortunately, workmen at our last apartment completely effing killed all of my other trees except for the fig tree which has proven to be quite a hearty plant.

I have dreams of getting a house someday with enough yard to plant a small vegetable garden and maybe even erecting a small green house.  Growing my own produce that I know is safe (we keep having killer spinach scares!) and cost effective is very attractive to me.  Also, homegrown tastes better!  I have memories of being a little girl and going ot my grandparent’s house where my grandfather always keeps a vegetable garden and picking turnips and eating them on the ground.  His cabbage and tomatoes are the essence of fresh and clean.  The stuff you get from the grocery store can’t even compare.  I also feel that Lukas might be ab;e to appreciate vegetables and fruit more if he were able to help grow and harvest them. 

At the house in Adamston, we had two apple trees and two chestnut trees in the yard.  Before we moved I was plotting putting in a vegetable garden.  I miss those apple trees like crazy.  Apple pies, apple cake, pork roast with apple chutney…all from the bounty in my backyard.  It was simple and I had to work for it, pruning the trees and making sure the apples were picked so that newer bigger ones could grow….but I have never been happier as I was in those days. 

We are still working out some tiny details about what is going to happen once we get back East.  Stress has become almost an odour in this house.  The dream is that we will be able to save enough money in a few months for a down payment on a house and buy.  Settle down.  PLEASE GOD I DON’T WANT TO MOVE ANYMORE.  I want stability….to wake up in the morning and know that I don’t have to worry about moving or leases.  It would be nice to wake up on a sunny day and go outside and have a yard to oversee.  Trees to prune, a garden to tend to, grass to trim.  I miss that salt of the earth type of work, I really do.  My mind is more at peace when my body is worked to exhaustion. 

I would like to see more of a proactive move towards growing some of your own produce.  In Wired magazine a few months ago, there was an article about people in small apartments in big cities making tiny vegetable gardens on the rooftops of their buildings or on their tiny patios.  Really, if you can fit seating on your patio, you have enough room to grow vegetables or fruits that grow on vines.  You can also grow your own herbs.  This would be a great thing to see indeed.  You can’t grow deep fried food in a garden (although you know I love me fatty trash food).  It honestly does force you to rethink your diet when you’ve got a big bowl of fresh fruit/veg on your counter.  You know you’ve only got a small window to eat them before they go bad and you make yourself think up creative ways to use them before resorting to the microwavable atrocity you usually go for.

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T.M.I.

Disclaimer:  If you are a blood relative or just don’t want to know specifics of my sex life, stop reading right now.  You have a choice.  Use it.  We are delving into the “Too Much Information” realm today.

While doing my blog-reading for the day, Mihow (favorite blog) had posted a blog about crying at odd times that have nothing to do with emotion.  She cries when she jogs.  Oddly enough, I didn’t find this strange at all.  I cry at an odd time as well.

I decided to leave a comment on Mihow’s post….an embarrassing and very personal comment.  You see, I cry whenever I have an intense orgasm.  Now let me explain this to you before you get some crazy picture in your head of Jessie and I in a lover’s embrace and I am bawling my eyes out.  That’s not quite the way it works.  It’s not every orgasm.  It’s the intense ones.  It’s not a river of tears.  It’s quiet with only a few tears.  There’s no sobbing.  

I can’t help it though.  The first time it happened to me I got really thrown off.  Luckily, I live in a time where the internet has the answer to almost any question.  Turns out, this is pretty common.  Some people on the internet were complete dicks about it (they were men, actually.  Frat boy douchebags to be exact) and said that only crazy women cried after sex.  Some people (romantic dips) said it was because you are SO IN LOVE with your partner.    Trust me, I’ve been with Jessie for nearly 8 years, I’m not thinking about how much I love him or blah blah blah.  You don’t want to know what I’m thinking, suffice it to say it is vivid and dirty. 

Then, finally, (after hundreds of really stupid and unhelpful answers and message boards) a medical website explained that an orgasm is a release and during that release stress and tension release in a huge surge and tears are your body’s way of reacting to that surge.  Seeing how stressed I get sometimes and how I use sex to relax, that makes perfect sense to me. 

Still, I feel embarrassed about it.  I feel that I’m weird.  I’m so lucky that Jessie understands and just laughs when he sees the tears.  It actually boosts his stupid male ego when he sees the tears because he knows that he basically just rocked my world.  It’s so off-putting to me because I’m not a crier.  I don’t cry often.  I know a lot of women are, and I don’t judge, but I just never get so overwhelmed by something that I just start crying.  So it’s weird when I shed 5 little tears after great sex. 

There, you officially know more about me than you should.  I’m going to go bury my head in the sand for a decade or so.

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